Wow!  There isn't much else to say about this.  Although the "eloquently" put question "NavyBoy" asks is (i guess) valid, he could use some advice in other areas of his seemingly complicated life.  How would you answer this?

Knocking up your fiancee and her sister is pretty bad.  Asking for advice about it in a public newspaper is dancing on the line of worse.  I agree that he is not ready for kids.  It's probably best that his children don't know him to help avoid them turning out like him.  That's my answer.  What do you think?  How would you answer this?